EFT Borrowing Benefits Groups with Paul Lynch and Rue Hass

Attendance at each group is credited with one half day group supervision towards AAMET Level 3 Supervision requirements. Borrowing Benefits is a means of working as group with EFT where all benefit or "borrow" benefits from each other.   You can register for one or both of these sessions with Rue or Paul. 

Groups with Paul Lynch Friday 25th April 2008, 10am to 1pm:  Borrowing Benfits for Pain   £50 3pm to 6pm :  The Colour of Pain Explained  £50 Paul Lynch author of the EFT bestseller "Emotional Healing in Minutes" says "You can’t pigeonhole pain". The morning session is especially for those experiencing pain or who work with those who do and in the afternoon session you can learn to use Paul's highly effective technique.

It's interesting how we use the same words to describe both emotions and physical symptoms. Who hasn’t had heartaches, painful memories, or incidents that they’re still sore about?   EFT master Paul Lynch describes physical pain as the pigeon holes into which we slot our unresolved emotions, intending to deal with them later.  And just like the mail, we don’t always get round to it. The reality is that we only look inward for answers when the pain hits hard.   Doctors today seem keen to prescribe painkillers to help us cope with the stresses and strains of everyday living. It seems somehow easier to take a pill than face what might be an emotional cause of our pain. But it’s true to say that if we don't listen to the whispers, sooner or later we’ll get the shouts, and boy does pain make us want to shout at times.  

Paul first developed the Colour of Pain technique ten years ago, as a direct challenge to this apparent reluctance to address the emotional causes of pain. It’s a simple technique that can have quite startling results. And with the aid of volunteers from the audience, Paul will demonstrate just how effective it can be in neutralising pain that may have troubled people for years.  His 'rapid-fire' questioning technique seems to speak directly to the pain itself, often getting to the root causes in minutes.

Paul Lynch: Morning Session Borrowing Benefits with the Colour of Pain

If you have ever experienced any physical or emotional pain in your life...or are ever likely too, then this session has been designed with you in mind.  Using this simple procedure, it is possible to directly 'self diagnose' the specific emotional causes of physical pain, both recent and long standing. Using Paul's  questioning techniques, the conscious mind is bypassed revealing the unconscious causative issues behind physical pain. This session  is for people that are in pain, and who would like an effective method of dealing with pain when it arises, both personally and as a healing solution with clients. It would also be of use to people still struggling with the concept that our unresolved emotions can take on a physical expression. Colour of pain demonstrations are highly engaging and ideal for group work.  

Paul Lynch: Afternoon Session, The Colour of Pain Explained

After a 'Colour of pain' demonstration people have so many questions about the how to's of using the Colour of pain technique on themselves and their clients'. Because of the techniques practical usefulness and simplicity, it offers endless opportunities of discovery into the causes of many, if not all physical ailments. This is your chance to 'get to know' the colour of pain technique. Come along and discuss your issues and those of your clients' and Paul will offer practical solutions. This will be a very informal and friendly opportunity to explore the vast arena self awareness.

Groups with Rue Hass Friday 25th April 2008, 10am to 1pm:  How to Survive and Thrive as a Highly Sensitive Person  £50 3pm to 6pm :  What is Holding Your Practice Back?  £50 Rue Hass has inspired many with her highly popular newsletter, insightful books and helpful teleclasses   Now you have the opportunity to work with Rue using the EFT Borrowing Benefits technique.

Borrowing Benefits is a means of working as group where all benefit or "borrow" benefits from each other.   You can register for one or both of these sessions with Rue.  The morning session 10am to 1pm is for all and especially for those of a sensitive temperament and is entitled How to Survive and Thrive as a Sensitive Person. In bringing her work to so many she has proven herself to be a master or marketing in the internet age and in the afternoon session 3pm to 6pm,  Rue will share her knowhow and work with the group to help discover what is holding your practice back and to overcome blocks to putting yourself out there. 

Rue Hass: Morning Borrowing Benefits Session: 10am - 1pm  

How to Survive and Thrive as a  Highly Sensitive Person Have You Ever Heard: Oh, you are just too sensitive! You take things so hard! Just let it roll off your back. Why can’t you just let it go! And maybe even, What’s wrong with you?  You are such a cry baby!

You have probably thought they were right - there must be something wrong with you! Most sensitive people whole-heartedly wish that they were tougher and more thick-skinned. One of the sure signs of a truly sensitive person is feeling animosity toward his own sensitive nature.  Many sensitive adults have learned to hide their sensitivity from others. 

They feel like their sensitivity is a weakness.

They wish things didn’t bother them so much.

They wish their emotions weren’t so obvious to other people.

They wish they could let things go and not worry so much.

They wish they could do something to stop being so sensitive

Well let's tap together, and transform the old images of ourselves!

Rue says "I speak as a highly sensitive person myself.  It has taken me most of my life to understand this temperament and value it for its gifts. In my work as an Intuitive Mentor I have worked with many people like you or your loved ones.  If you’re reading this and feeling, “Yeah, that’s me, alright!” YOU are the help that is on the way, whether you are sensitive yourself, or partnered, working or interacting with, or the parent of someone who is sensitive"

Remember our wonderful ideal qualities:

•       Internally deeply caring   

•       Deeply committed to the positive and the good

•       On a mission to bring peace to the world

•       Strong personal morality

•       Often make extraordinary sacrifices for someone / something we believe in

Being sensitive is not only a real Emotional Temperament - it’s the kind of awareness that can save the world.  I believe that highly sensitive people are pointing the way for all of humanity, toward learning a more graceful way of living. I believe that in some way we don’t quite understand, the world has called each of us to be here, for our specific gifts.

Sensitivity and Chronic Pain

However, for many of us, this feeling can lead us to being sick and tired.   More often than not we have put our commitment to “saving the world” ahead of our own well-being.  In fact, many of us have the unconscious belief that we must “save the world” before we can attend to our own needs.  I believe that anyone with a chronic condition probably has a sensitive temperament.  People who are this sensitive are less than 20% of the population, and possibly a lot less than that.   If you are sensitive, you know that it feels as if you are the only one in the world, and there must be something wrong with you.  No one else seems to understand.

To read more from Rue, go to: http://www.intuitivementoring.com/sensitivity.html  For information on Rue's books on the Highly Sensitive Person go to: http://www.intuitivementoring.com/EFTbooks.html

Rue Hass:  Afternoon Borrowing Benefits Session: 3pm - 6pm

What is Holding your Practice Back? If you are beginning or expanding an EFT practice, (or wanting to develop a small business of any kind),and you are stuck in thoughts like these...   I don't know how to market myself. What would happen if you did?  Is there a downside to success?  EFT can help you to dissolve those fears! I'm shy...and I don't know if I really deserve to be successful. Do you want to create a compelling vision that continues to invite you to step onto a larger stage - and still feel comfortable?   I procrastinate all the time... But what if there is a deeper message in your procrastination that is actually the key to your success?

Would you like some help?

This Borrowing Benefits session with Rue Hass is intended to help you to discover and resolve the specific beliefs, fears and self sabotage that are stopping you from "putting yourself out there."  Perhaps you are well trained in EFT, and maybe some other healing practices as well, but you are sitting there in your office or at home thinking "If I only knew how to market myself I could be successful!  But I don't know where to start!" Or perhaps you do have access to lots of good information on marketing strategies, but like this woman says:

"I fear FAILURE!"

"I fear being inadequate as a practitioner."

"I fear the money aspect of things, not being able to pay bills, which adds pressure to needing to grow a practice."

Can you find yourself in any of these fears?

 How would you complete the sentence: "I stop myself from getting too successful because____________. 

"I listen too much to what those around me are saying rather than just believing in myself." 

"I'm afraid that I will work myself until there is nothing left because that is how I am... I have difficulty delegating" 

"I can't be more successful than ___________ or else___________"

"I'm afraid to "sell" our business because I am worried I will come across as trying to take their money, rather than offering them assistance in achieving health"

"I'm afraid of being mediocre when I expect myself to be great.  But at the same time I'm afraid I will never be able to live up to my own standards and expectations"

"I don't trust myself to actually be able to reach the goals I have set"

Do these sabotage strategies sound like you?

For many of us, the problem does not really lie in not knowing HOW to market ourselves and our work.  The problem lies in allowing ourselves to WANT to take such big steps forward.  It may even be difficult for you to say the words "my practice" out loud. There have been many influences in our lives that have "kept us small." 

Learn what has kept you small, and set yourself free!

As Marianne Williamson 's now familiar and still wonderful words say,

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

Let's gather together in this EFT Borrowing Benefits session to open to the vision of our own inner goodness in action in our work.   The world needs what we have to offer!